Child Custody & Time-Sharing
Florida does not use the word “custody” any more. It uses parental responsibility and time-sharing — and the difference matters more than most parents expect.
Two separate questions get decided in every Florida case involving children, and parents routinely conflate them.
Parental responsibility is decision-making: school, non-emergency medical care, religion. Florida presumes shared parental responsibility, meaning both parents confer and decide together, unless shared responsibility would be detrimental to the child.
Time-sharing is the schedule — where the child physically is, overnight by overnight, including holidays, school breaks and summer. Since 2023 Florida law presumes equal time-sharing is in the child's best interests, but that presumption can be rebutted by evidence.
The parenting plan
Every Florida case with a minor child requires a written parenting plan approved by the court. A good one is specific enough that nobody has to negotiate at a school gate: exchange times and locations, holiday rotation, how the parents communicate, who books the pediatrician, what happens when a parent wants to travel out of state.
A vague parenting plan is the single most common reason parents end up back in front of a judge. We write them tightly.
Best interests of the child
Florida Statutes §61.13 sets out the factors a court weighs — the capacity of each parent to put the child's needs first, the division of parental responsibilities before the case, the child's home, school and community record, the moral fitness and mental and physical health of each parent, and any evidence of domestic violence, abuse or neglect. It is a long list, and a judge does not get to pick a favorite parent; the judge has to work the statute.
What a strong parenting plan settles
- The regular weekly time-sharing schedule, term-time and school holidays
- Holiday and birthday rotation, spelled out year by year
- Exchange times and locations, and who is permitted to collect the child
- How parents communicate — and how quickly the other must respond
- Decision-making on schooling, medical care and extracurriculars
- Travel and out-of-state or overseas trips
- Right of first refusal when a parent needs childcare
- How the plan is reviewed as the child gets older
Common questions
Does Florida favor mothers?
No. Florida law expressly forbids a court from giving a preference based on the gender of the parent. Since 2023 the statute presumes equal time-sharing is in the child's best interests, for both parents.
At what age can a child choose which parent to live with?
There is no magic age in Florida. A court may consider the reasonable preference of a child it finds sufficiently mature, but the preference is one factor among many — never the deciding one.
Can I move away with my child?
If you are moving more than 50 miles from your current residence for at least 60 days, Florida's relocation statute applies. You need either the other parent's written agreement or a court order before you go. Relocating without one is one of the fastest ways to lose time-sharing.
The other parent is not following the schedule. What now?
Do not self-help by withholding the child or stopping support — that puts you in contempt too. File a motion for enforcement or contempt. Courts can order make-up time-sharing, fees, and in persistent cases modify the plan.
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